A Tale of Two Cults

59+ The Amazing Randi The cult of Uri Geller should have died on August 1st, 1973.
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Daniel Thomason
22 days ago

Here it is – this is the post I’ve been waiting for. The complement to #BITFD. I predict that this is where you lose the fair-weather friends who have come for the burning, not for the building. The jackasses who just want to kick down the barn, not the good (and amateur but willing) carpenters who are ready to craft the new one.

Everyone would happily have fought against slavery, had they been in Lincoln’s place. Much harder to follow Lincoln’s example in promoting former enemies – Seward, Chase, and Bates – to his cabinet. I hope that the Epsilon Theory pack (and beyond) can embrace that level of citizenship – putting aside the thrill of lording over a former opponent to instead join hands in building something better.

Laurie
22 days ago

Exactly right Rusty. We can’t move forward without mercy. Well written!

Joseph Russell
22 days ago

Thank you Rusty, I needed to hear that today. I love the idea of all sides believing that they are right, yet granting mercy to all. It sounds like a wonderful world, but one that will probably destroy Twitter. I hope Ben’s ok with that.

Joseph Russell
22 days ago

It hit me after I posted my previous comment that our way forward is a so called “Circle of Mercy”, a positive feedback loop if you will.. I don’t care who thinks they are right, I want to be involved in a Circle of Mercy, and today it starts with me. Thank you Rusty, I needed a reason to try and let go of my election angst, and you gave me a wonderful roadmap to my first step.

Mark22
22 days ago

I’ve actually been a bit turned off by the phrase BITFD (not the ideas behind it), so this one felt like ET oxygen to me as I can’t wait for BIBU.

Rusty is spot on as it will take mercy to build it back up as does any damaged relationship. The victory dance feels good and can even be justified, but fair or not, it won’t lead to repair. The “no taunt” rule in football is a version of this (forced mercy, if you will) as the NFL wants to keep the game, season and league going forward.

And great writing Rusty – the stories were engaging and, by the time you got there, your conclusion had already achieved reader buy-in because of them.

Adam
22 days ago

Piety is a fickle friend.

Desperate_Yuppie
22 days ago

fascinating. Your family’s campfire stories had to be pretty interesting growing up.

Lawrence Pusateri
22 days ago

When judgement day comes , in this world or the next , what is it we all want? Judgment or Mercy?

I have not met a soul yet you wants judgement.

Maybe the Lords prayer is correct and we must first extend mercy– before we can, in good faith, ask for it.

Clive Hale
22 days ago

The only way to go Rusty

Jim Handshaw
22 days ago

Thank you Rusty,

I’ve found that people on both sides of the widening gyre passionately believe in their positions. They feel they are right, just and moral in expressing their views.

As they scream in my face, I’ve found that I have to respect that. I learned that from my daughter 40 years ago, during her terrible twos. For some reason, fortunately, I didn’t scream back. I calmly said, “You’re right, it’s not fair, but…….”

BITFU is the way with respect and mercy.

Jim Handshaw

Barry Rose
22 days ago

Rusty – your last question is the key. I admit to becoming jaded and perpetually angry at the sorry state of our country, so I pray I can find it in me. Your emphasis on mercy being key brought up a fond memory. A friend & former co-worker, Dr. V, raised his family in Lincoln NE. About 25 years ago we were discussing this same subject, and he told me that in his home there was signage in most every room that said “No put-downs – this is a safe place.” The kids in the neighborhood didn’t call it the V’s house – they would tell their parents that they were going over to ‘the safe place’ to play. That is a great reminder that I can & should carry that safe space with me; not for me but for those I come in contact with. Thanks again for the memory, and a reminder of what can be done to build people up. Dr. V, if you are reading this, I miss your family Christmas letters. Blessings.

Tony Hunter
22 days ago

I’ve been reading Ben’s stuff since July 22, 2014. This is the post that convinced me to spend $20. So, if there’s some sort of bragging rights or office pool, you guys know who gets credit.

“Show Mercy” the mirror image of “Turn the Other Cheek.” And it’s the only way to change the Competition Game back into the Cooperation Game. The opponent will exploit that at first. It will make us look and feel foolish on occasion. It will be a certain special kind of anguish sorting out those who are dead set on always taking advantage of that mercy from those who can learn to play the Cooperation Game again. It will take time, effort and pain, but it’s the price we will have to pay.

Good note.

Tobin Hartnell
21 days ago
Reply to  Tony Hunter

I second Tony (and the whole ET community) that the long-game is not just a reaction against today’s malaise, but a movement for a better America.

I was fortunate that Rusty and Ben gave me a free membership for a year because of my work in post-ISIL territory in Iraq. I have served 6 years in Iraq. If I get promoted (rather than losing my job), then I pledge to join Tony as a paying member of ET.

Keep up the great work.

K
K
22 days ago

Excellent post Rusty!

This is a trivial question, but did everyone on Johnny Carson agree that Uri Geller actually bent the spoon a little bit? I’ve heard about Uri’s failure on Carson before, but today I actually watched the clip and I was surprised that it didn’t seem to be a total failure. Of course, I don’t believe he could actually bend spoons, but it seems like he pulled off some kind of an illusion there.

Carl Richards
22 days ago

Change is hard, very hard. Mercy is hard, very hard. I want to believe we can get there. The problem with getting there though, is it usually takes catastrophic events to catalyze that type of change. Pandemic doesn’t appear to be the catalyst, maybe it’s another 9/11 type event, maybe homegrown terrorism, possibly war. My fear, is death, as usual, will have to be what teaches us about life. Hopefully, it doesn’t get to that point, but it’s been my experience that most people never truly change. 22 years ago, and 2 days after my 1st daughter was born, my catalyst was a 3-story fall through a roof resulting in C4/5 spinal cord injury (quadriplegic), next 180 days on a ventilator with collapsed lungs and the last 22 years learning to live again. I don’t tell that story for sympathy, just not real sure I would’ve ever experienced true change and true contentment without the accident. Funny how the closer to death you get, the more precious life becomes. Hopefully, the rest of the world is literally not as hardheaded as I am and it won’t take that kind of catalyst to see truth and have mercy. As usual, after I read here, I’m always ready to run for President! 🙂

CautiouslyOptimistic
22 days ago

Rusty, thanks for this wonderful piece and I believe we will watch what you are discussing play out very soon. I think we will get a Blue Wave and then the Dems will be faced with a choice of how to treat Republicans: Forgive them their sins and delusions (personified by Trump) and welcome them Home (to the True Party) or Pack the Court and really stick it to them.

If the Biden wing prevails I believe they choose mercy and effectively put an end to the Republican Party as a viable national force. Think post-Pete Wilson California. If the pressing question for public policy is whether to print $2 trillion to bail out people/small business/airlines/etc. impacted by Covid or print $7 trillion to bail out everybody (Cook County/student debt/medical debt/most of New Jersey/etc.), who needs a Republican perspective anyway?

Greg Storms
22 days ago

Mercy, forbearance, putting yourself in another person’s shoes is certainly necessary to prevent the widening of the gyre. If we can’t summon it up in ourselves then the second stanza of The Second Coming may come into play. ….The darkness drops again: but now I know That twenty centuries of stony sleep Were vexed to nightmare by a rocking cradle, And what rough beast, its hour come round at last, Slouches towards Bethleham to be born?

Greg Storms
21 days ago
Reply to  Rusty Guinn

The good we do for one another does matter. It matters greatly.

Cactus Ed
21 days ago

Like Tony, this was the tipping post that levered out my wallet. The anarchy of BITFD had / has to be met with creative “crearchy” of BITFU.
The reason we’re in the fix we’re in is that parties (political and otherwise) cannot creatively and compellingly execute on a cooperative and attractive vision for the future.

And whatever future we’re slouching toward, the response has always got to be forgiveness, mercy and love.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AhAHDaOGHFI

Good note!

Gregg Sainsbury
21 days ago

Best article yet. Like someone else already said, Mercy starts with me. Today. I needed this. Thank you Rusty!

Panopticon
21 days ago

It feels calculated at this point. Every election now must be some existential threat to ‘our way of life’. It would be ignorant to not knowledge that this is being pushed from both the left and the right. Vote or Die has become a permanent mantra. Everyone I know had an overwhelming anxious feeling. We want this to be over. We want things to go back to the ‘way they were’. But no matter the outcome, I don’t believe that is possible. There are no longer any undecided voters*. Now there are just unmotivated voters . So then the theory becomes you need to motivate your base to get them out and vote. There are a lot of ways to do that. Either through holding rallies, so the crowd can watch the crowd and motivate each other to go out and vote. (Trumps polling has gone up as his rallies have increased). Fear is a great motivator. Hope is also another motivator. But the take away shouldn’t be which is the better motivator. The take away is that politicians now know there are levers that they can pull to motivate people to vote. Those levers are not going away. Politicians will continued to be pull on those levers, to enrage, pester, annoy, encourage,discourage, cheer you on to vote. While not ever lever is designed for you, know that ever lever is designed for someone. You might think a certain lever is an obvious or obnoxious manipulation, that does not mean the other… Read more »

Timothy CUNNINGHAM
21 days ago

I have always found that allowing forbearance to flow through you is more satisfying than allowing the negative stuff to just pop and sputter in its own grease. However, for those who have been horrified by the sociopathic malignant narcissist, the biggest challenge will be not to gloat. The temptation is huge. The payoff, transient. The word “mercy” conjures up (apologies to the Amazing Randi) visions of the powerful showing empathetic kindness to the powerless. And, if that was as far as it went, it would be fine. But human nature being what it is, once the rules of the game were changed into complete competition, then the gloating becomes a knee-jerk response on one side or the other. But, unlike basketball, where you have to play a three-point strategy these days, in politics, you don’t have to participate in the emotionally charge competition. This is where quiet forbearance comes into play. And, I emphasize the word “quiet.” Mercy, tempered with few words. Forbearance, patience, and mostly silence is the right thing to do here. Of course there’s no forgetting. But there is forgiving and forbearance. And these things are hard to do without practice. So, you’ve got to practice this stuff on a daily basis. In the workplace. In the family. With friends. And especially with “opponents.” It can be trying, but it’s the only way to master the difficult art of forbearance and forgiveness. It’s like the virtue of humility. As soon as you crow about being humble,… Read more »

Craig Wilson
20 days ago

I read this for the first time on Wednesday morning after election day , and it is consistent with my faith in the Pack – not as a thing, a structure or an institution but as a community of flesh and blood and soul. We can change the world, we can BITFU, through the heart. Love mercy. Act justly. Walk humbly.

DougENuff
20 days ago

Great & Timely message, Rusty. Thanks for the re-frame.
BiBU is something we must do in our hearts and minds first.
Forgiveness and Mercy will be needed when we get around to our own Truth & Reconciliation movement. Aaaaany time now.

Peter Frederich
20 days ago

Well said.

tromares
18 days ago

Brings to mind the efforts to heal Rwanda after the genocide. Forgiveness Councils and the Forgiveness Project. Lot’s of other things to be concerned about in that country but the recognition that a societal abuse cycle of division, retribution and hatred cannot heal itself and in fact stands to destroy a people is, by my view, something to take note of.

David Krieger
14 days ago

Amen

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